How Long Should You Crush On Someone

Can this really be an important question? Many aren't sure anymore, let it be what it’s supposed to be, I always preferred to believe everything would turn out fine; didn't

they say time unravels every mystery! Indeed, it did but in my case time revealed I was always the victim in the whole thing. I can’t agree anymore that I kept playing myself out by being indecisive of what I wanted to do about my crush, somethings just bring out the fool in us (laughing) don’t you dare judge me.

By the way who is your crush? Is she that pretty innocent looking girl with brown eyes, the tall handsome guy that never gives you attention, the one you suspect low key has a crush on you too, the one who you have never said a word to, could your crush be the girl that never allows you to rest, always having reason to bother you with calls and chats, or you crush is your best friend bae.  whoever that keeps you awake thinking all night about the next day, (probably the females do this, not the guys though) or the one that leaves you breathless, confused, restless, anxious be it whatever feeling; you simply like the appearance of this strange being for no God damn reason. Yes, that’s who we talking about your crush. For every crush we develop, we either fall in love or fall out of love. Now how long do you have this feeling for someone and what does it lead to? No offense but if like me it doesn’t lead anywhere and it seems to linger for over a month and the situation is still the same!! There is a problem and you are going to be the solution.

From my view a crush on someone shouldn't last more than a month, for the ladies is an exception theirs could last for a life time (lol) any case where it lingers for so long, it could mean, you aren't decisive; not sure if you would like her attitude, or just like myself you are indeed very much greedy, you want them all (it can’t happen), or you are shy/timid, none of which is helping your career. Listen up, its better late than never, once you see someone you like follow these simple guide, it will help your case

1.       If you aren't in talking terms with your crush, making an appearance in their face and start a little conversation. Just get to know the person.

2.       Invite your crush to spend personal time with you doing something innocent, (not in your house o !!!!!)  could be a movie, hangout, a date and other seductive activities, that will subtly reveal your intentions.

3.       Avoid being friends with your crush, am not saying you should ignore or snub them, just don’t be in their normal everyday life activities, be more of an august guest, you would be received just how your intentions are perceived.

4.        Barely use social media to carry out your flirting work, its more effective when you have a face to face interaction, the results would definitely come out, you should only use social media to compliment what you have already started via face to face conversation.

5.       Take your time in the whole process but eventually ask for what you want, even if you don’t get the answer you want; you would at least earn the respect you deserve

And there it is, a short straight forward article from an amateur who’s only trying to help the lost ones, but not the hopeless

Thanks for reading this, your comments would do a lot better in making this much rich and interesting as it ought to be.